tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84692022876977836302024-02-08T05:23:33.869-05:00Nice White Ladyone pretty ordinary nice white lady trying to do the right thingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger182125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-91737995556794697342013-10-28T12:02:00.000-04:002013-10-28T15:59:55.911-04:00It's been too long..This blog has been looking unloved for too long.<br />
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I have been absent for many good, sensible reasons. First, I have been busy writing about <a href="http://www.pinkisforboys.org/" target="_blank">gender and clothing</a>, which didn't quite fit with the NWL focus. Second, there has been an explosion of blogs and social media about sustainable consumption, and I felt less pressure to add my two cents. </div>
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Still, I feel the occasional tug to check in here and update any readers about my personal journey and share my insights on events and trends in Consumerland. I've been curating three collections on <a href="http://scoop.it/">Scoop.it</a> -- Aging Well, Looking Good, Fashion and Culture, and Pink and Blue. <a href="http://www.scoop.it/t/aging-well-looking-good" target="_blank">Aging Well, Looking Good</a> is my stockpile for my next book (mental title: Age Appropriate). <a href="http://www.scoop.it/t/fashion-and-culture" target="_blank">Fashion and Culture</a> is a resource for my course, Fashion and Consumer Culture. <a href="http://www.scoop.it/t/pink-and-blue" target="_blank">Pink and Blue</a> is all things gender and appearance. Notice: I have no ethical/sustainable/minimalist consumption collection. </div>
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Frankly, it seems like we first-world denizens have all the <i>information</i> we need about consumerism and its impact. If our grandchildren come of age in a dirtier, more dangerous, more divided world, it won't be from lack of facts, but lack of will.</div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-67283085416084049932012-11-09T09:00:00.000-05:002012-11-09T09:04:29.031-05:00How Will Climate Change Affect What We Wear? Right after Hurricane Sandy, I got a query from the Huffington Post about the relationship between climate change and fashion. It was exactly the same kind of query that got me started on this blog eons ago. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/22/climate-change-global-warming-hurricane-sandy-style-apparel-fashion-industry_n_2001510.html" target="_blank">Here is the article</a>, which I think is pretty well-done and represents my answers very well. As always, the comments are worth a read.<br />
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Here is the longer email reply I sent the writer:<br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">These are really complex questions, considering that "textiles" include materials ranging from agricultural products to petroleum products to recycled materials, and their production and transformation into clothing takes place all over the world. Fibers such as cotton and linen require land, water and a hospitable climate to grow. Similarly, wool and other animal fibers depend on the same resources as meat production. The man-made fibers, ranging from petroleum-based materials such as polyester and acrylic to regenerated cellulose and protein materials (rayon, lyocell, PLA) each have their own production processes and requirements. If you expand the sustainability question to include not only climate change but other environmental factors, such as pollution, the issue gets even stickier.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The short answer is that climate change will impact plant fibers in the same way as the food supply. It isn't just a matter of higher temperatures; the real impact is in the higher likelihood of drought and catastrophic, crop-destroying weather. We may also see greater threats from pests and plant diseases. For petroleum-based fibers, the availability and cost of crude oil is an obvious factor. Recycled and regenerated fibers show promise, but not all are truly sustainable. For example, both lyocell and rayon are regenerated cellulose fibers, but the rayon process is much dirtier -- and that includes rayon made from bamboo, which is often promoted as sustainable because of the way the plant is grown.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I doubt that we can attribute specific styles such as cropped pants to climate change, though consumers may be more interested in clothing strategies that help them cope with "unseasonal" weather -- summer weight but springlike clothing for 80-degree days in March, for example. These strategies may include layered clothing or zip-out linings, zip-off sleeves, colors and fabrics that can span seasons. In a weak economy, I can't see consumers expanding their wardrobes. Retailers and manufacturers may be feeling this uncertainly more than consumers; when summer temperatures extend into October, it throws the traditional seasonal retail calendar out of whack. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">As for "whether natural vs. synthetic textiles are better for our changing climate", I am assuming you are asking about sustainability, not comfort. The uncomfortable truth is that overconsumption is a major factor in climate change. We buy much more clothing today than we did a generation ago, and too much of it is "fast", disposable fashion. If we define "sustainable fashion" as made of particular fibers but still ready for Goodwill in a few months, we are deluding ourselves.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Rather than predict the future, I'd like to offer my own personal wish list for sustainable fashion. </span><br />
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<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">80% of my wardrobe would consist of basics (underwear, socks, classic skirts, jeans, plain tops) that would form the backdrop and foundation for the 20% of my wardrobe devoted to really special pieces (accessories and festive clothing)</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">the 80% basic wardrobe would be made by fairly paid workers, using environmentally sound materials and methods</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">the 20% "special" wardrobe would artisan-made, either by me (in my ample free time) or a fairly-paid craftsperson.</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">a robust textile products recycling system, including refashioning, second-hand clothing and raw material recycling similar to existing paper, metal and plastic systems.</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">expansion of clothing rental programs for women -- wedding dresses, formals, high-end maternity wear.</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">better labeling so consumers could easily identify green, ethical and fair trade products.</span></li>
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-10194178334485277222012-11-07T10:06:00.001-05:002012-11-07T10:06:58.979-05:00Forever 21, sweatshops and the hidden cost of fast fashion<p><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">It's the inconvenient truth of the rag trade: an abundance of cheap, trendy clothes -- also known as "fast fashion" -- carries a hidden cost of human misery. For the American consumer, it is easy to ignore the problem of sweatshop labor because, like the migrant workers who harvest our food, the people who make our clothing are mostly invisible. "Sweatshop" once referred to a system of production, where garment producers contracted with middlemen to handle unskilled tasks on a piecework basis. Because of the fierce competition among these subcontractors, this "sweating" system tended to not only depress wages, but place tremendous pressure on the middlemen to do just about anything to increase productivity, resulting in long workdays, crowded workplaces and grinding working conditions. After the Triangle Shirtwaist fire in 1911, labor laws and unionization helped improve conditions, <em><a href="http://www.nclnet.org/about-ncl/history" target="_blank">propelled by consumer demand for sweat-free products</a></em>.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Since the 1970s, the gains of the Progressive Era began to be eroded, first by relocating of garment production to parts of the US with fewer unions, and then to countries with less worker protection. Out of sight, out of mind.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Every once in a while, we are reminded that sweatshops still exist within our borders, despite the legal protections available. In a recent news story, LA Times reporter <a title="link to LA Times story" href="http://www.latimes.com/business/money/la-fi-mo-forever-21-labor-20121029,0,3010027.story" target="_blank">Shan Li described a Labor Department investigation</a> of fast-fashion icon Forever 21 for "'significant' violations of federal laws on minimum wage, overtime and record-keeping by vendors supplying the company". It is important to understand that, since 1994, the federal government no longer defines a sweatshop by the contracting arrangement by according to non-compliance with federal or state labor laws. For the truly wonkish, there is a <a title="BOL database" href="http://ogesdw.dol.gov/search.php" target="_blank">searchable database of investigations</a> at the Department of Labor Database (try a search on apparel, filtering by OSHA violations, for example). For those with a more activist inclination, check out <a href="http://www.sweatfree.org/" target="_blank">Sweatfree Communities</a> and the <a title="National Consumers League" href="http://www.nclnet.org/" target="_blank">National Consumers League</a>.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-28931658389848341352012-10-18T14:23:00.004-04:002012-10-18T14:24:17.598-04:00The Next GenerationMy daughter is having a baby!<br />
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Well, not for another few weeks, but it's still given me an occasion to step back and consider procreation, parenting and consumption for the first time in many, many years. Maria was born in the twelfth year of our marriage, after much discussion and ansgt about our relationship, our finances and the Future of the Planet. I was part of a that group of Baby Boomers who delayed parenting, considered being child-free and, when we finally took the plunge, committed to no more than two children. So becoming a parent was, in part, a decision that had ethical dimensions. So did the preparations: cloth diapers, cutting down my childhood dresser to create a changing table, using home made or hand-me-down clothing. But it was clear how hard it would be to escape consumerism.<br />
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I wish my daughter and son-in-law well. They have a much stronger community of support than we did, because their friends are on the same path. Her husband was raised in a very self-sufficient household, on a farmstead in West Virginia, and he knows how to plant, preserve and pickle. They are both very selective about what they use and buy, to an extent that intimidates me! After all, I gave up on cloth diapers at three months.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-33139350055964301642012-06-07T10:06:00.000-04:002012-06-07T10:11:18.699-04:00Student testimonialIt's not often that teachers get to hear about how they have influenced their students. Even more rare is feedback on workshops or short presentations. Today I receieved a lovely email from someone who was in a workshop I offered over a year ago based on my "Voluntary Simplicity and Anti-consumerism" course. That class was essentially an introduction to the anti-consumption strands in American culture that have co-existed with materialism from the very beginning. It was not a how-to course in voluntary simplicity; it was part history and part cultural studies. But as nearly always with the material I teach, whether gender or consumption related, the discussion often veered to personal experiences and choices. This is what my student wrote:
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Sometimes I berate myself for not being more of an activist, not being on the front lines. But working behind the scenes is not the same as standing on the sidelines, is it?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-12681579485998685952011-10-20T08:10:00.000-04:002011-10-20T08:10:16.223-04:00Occupy your closet?As part of the Occupy movement, I am participating in a teach-in on my campus on November 3. I will be doing it in the Fashion and Consumer Culture course which will be conveniently in the middle of a unit on sustainability. When I saw the teach-in notice, I immediately saw the connection between economic injustice and consumerism, but I wonder how much I will have to explain to get students into the conversation. What do you see connecting the two?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-21976913461330273702011-10-13T11:28:00.001-04:002011-10-13T11:28:19.039-04:00I have 25 slaves working for me<p><a title="Slavery Footprint" href="http://www.slaveryfootprint.org/" target="_blank">Slavery Footprint</a> is a newly launched website and mobile app to help consumers calculate how many slaves are working to prodvide what you use, wear and eat. It's easy to navigate, and "fun" to use, if something that informs you that dozens -- or hundreds -- of human beings, many of them children, are working under the worst possible condictions to make sure you have your chocolate bar, designer jeans and MP3 player. My score was 25, and I am grateful that the website also points me to actions to make slavery truly a thing of the past.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-48092990953139618772011-04-23T09:59:00.000-04:002011-04-23T09:59:00.435-04:00Van Jones: "It's not too late."<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>I am at a conference, and alternating my time between attending sessions and grading, but I wanted to quickly share this inspirational video from Van Jones (former White House green jobs "czar" and Glenn Beck witch hunt target). When I start feeling down about the state of environmental activism, I can count on Van Jones to restore my optimism.<br /><br /><a target='_blank' href='http://inspirationhub.net/2011/01/its-not-too-late/'>It's not too late</a><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=73291ac0-c4c0-8cf7-9206-11c2bc8a42a3' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-88039010601786604572011-04-20T13:37:00.002-04:002011-04-20T13:45:54.130-04:00My Earth Day rant<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">My Twitter friend, Amy (AKA @UUatHome), recently posted a <a href="http://uuathome.com/2011/04/18/it-isnt-always-easy-being-green/" target="_blank">reflection about living green</a> with small children. It's a familiar story, and a timely one as we approach another <a href="http://www.earthday.org/earth-day-2011" target="_blank">Earth Day</a>. Most American adults living today have grown up hearing the messages of conservation and environmentalism. I was not quite twenty-one on April 22, 1970, a college student caught up in activism on multiple fronts. It seemed to me at that time that my generation, through the sheer force of numbers, would be able to alter the destructive course our culture was pursuing. Now in my sixties, I look around with a heavy heart and feel that we failed.<br />
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I covered this territory in an <a href="http://nicewhitelady.blogspot.com/2008/04/what-bother.html" target="_blank">Earth Day post in 2008</a>, when I was feeling more optimistic. <br />
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But the power of the environmental movement, for me, is that the personal level means something. There WAS something I could do; in fact there were lots of things. I could choose to live and work near public transportation. I could grow and cook my own food. I could have no more than two children. I could redefine the American Dream for myself and my family, and raise young adults who shared that dream. I could live and consume consciously, with open eyes.</i><br />
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Why so glum today? Let me list a few reasons: Van Jones being run out of the White House by a demagogue. BP oil spill. Japanese nuclear reactor. Fracking. GOP governors canceling high-speed rail projects. GOP House of Representatives trying to defund the EPA. A Democratic White House sending mixed messages about its commitment to the environment.<br />
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All the bicycling, recycling and freecycling in the world won't do a damn thing if those in power are determined to sell out humanity for personal gain. Lately I have been nursing a baby conspiracy theory of my own: they are all aliens, and they need to rebuild their spaceships so they can get out of dodge and rendezvous with the mothership. That's why they don't care about the damage they are doing; they won't be here to see it.<br />
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Seriously. All the green initiatives by individuals and communities and -- yes -- corporations won't amount to a hill of beans if we don't elect leaders who support environmentalism. Get out your checkbooks and your canvassing shoes, people. There's an election coming, and it's a big one.<br />
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Best of all, the author hits the mark with her question:<br/><h2><small><small><small><font face='arial'/></small></small>Can one often-worn and well-loved polyester garment be good for the environment?</small></h2>My answer is yes, because my own clothing philosophy is based on a flexible, high mileage wardrobe. My well-made, high quality black polyester trousers have survived five years of weekly use (daily use when I attend conferences). $50 on sale, dry cleaned two or three times a year. It's about time to start shopping for a replacement pair, and I am still thinking polyester.<br/><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=ec1ce24e-98e8-8c94-8f68-891a0b37127e' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-34739849364997258032011-01-11T16:53:00.001-05:002011-01-11T16:53:31.467-05:00Christina and Zoe<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Since the horrible events in Tucson, Arizona, my thoughts have been drawn to two little girls, both about nine years old. Had they met, these two vivacious, outgoing children might have been great friends, but their lives only intersected on a single day: September 11, 2001. On that bright Tuesday, as we know too well, Christina Taylor Greene was born, a symbol of hope in a terrible, frightening time. That very morning, <a href='http://www.pentagonmemorial.net/remember/heroes.aspx?id=50' target='_blank'>Zoe Falkenberg</a>, just two months shy of her 9th birthday, had boarded American Airlines flight 77 with her parents and 3-year-old sister on her way to an adventure in Australia. <br/><br/>Zoe's mom was a former colleague; we were also neighbors, members of the same babysitting co-op. September 11 will always summon up Zoe's face, and my still-confused horror that anyone could be so villainous as to look at that child and see a de-humanized, symbolic target for their hatred. Of all the victims in Tucson, it is Christina whose face and story haunt me, somehow joined now with Zoe in the sad trajectory of our recent past.<br/><br/>There were children born all over America on January 8, 2011. What kind of America awaits them in 2020? What can we do to break this destructive cycle of hatred, dehumanization and destruction? Minister better to poor in spirit? Pursue more just policies, here and abroad? Address our culture's embrace of violence? Speak to each other with respect and care? Turn away from those in the media who profit from inflaming our fear and anger?<br/><br/>Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. For the next Zoe, the next Christina and your children and mine. For Glenn Beck's children and Barack Obama's children. For all of us.<span id='search' style='visibility: visible;'><em/><em/></span><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=c97180ba-6e93-8299-9076-cd393ca1ad51' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-26888562762877158912011-01-05T09:43:00.001-05:002011-01-05T09:43:16.526-05:00Lentil and sausage soup<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>One of the contradictions of my pursuit of minimalist living is that I aim to simplify my consumption of things I actually love to consume. <a href='http://www.facebook.com/Project333' target='_blank'>Project 333</a> is more delicious if I try to make every single one of the 33 items in my wardrobe something I love and could wear EVERY SINGLE DAY, if I had to. Likewise, I love cooking, but most of my adult life has been devoted to discovering ways to maximize my enjoyment of kitchen time and produce great leftovers. The result is a seasonal approach to ingredients combined with what I call "investment" cooking: cooking a large batches of food that can make several encore appearances. <br/><br/>Winter is my time for chili, soups, stews and roasts. Having a large pot of soup simmering on the stove, or a savory roast in the oven on Sunday, warms and perfumes the house with promises of quick meals in the busy week to come. This week's soup is a recipe I clipped about 35 years ago from a now-defunct magazine, <i>Attenzione</i>. <br/><br/>Lentil Soup<br/><br/>2 cups lentils<br/>1 lb. Italian sausage, browned (I prefer sweet, but if you like a really spicy soup, you can use 1/2 sweet, 1/2 hot)<br/>8 cups water<br/>2 cups chicken broth<br/>8 oz. thinly sliced pepperoni<br/>1 cup chopped onion<br/>1 16-oz. can of tomatoes<br/>2 1/2 tsp salt<br/>1/2 tsp oregano<br/>1/4 tsp sage<br/>1/4 tsp cayenne pepper<br/><br/>Combine all the ingredients above in a 6-quart pot, bring to a boil, then reduce heat and simmer 30 minutes, stirring now and then.<br/><br/>Add:<br/>2 medium carrots, sliced<br/>2 stalks celery, diced<br/><br/>Simmer 40 minutes more.<br/><br/>We'll be eating this all week, and I don't care. In fact, I'll be sorry when it's all gone.<br/><br/>If you love the idea of minimalist cooking, I recommend <a href='http://topics.nytimes.com/top/features/diningandwine/columns/the_minimalist/index.html' target='_blank'>Mark Bittman's "The Minimalist"</a> column in the New York Times and the brand-spanking-new blog <a href='http://simplifried.com/' target='_blank'>Simplifried</a>, Unclutterer's baby sister devoted to "ending mealtime stress".<br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=86ffe359-af6f-8ef4-8051-7a755e436cda' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-85097643932909070992010-12-30T09:33:00.001-05:002010-12-30T15:29:05.834-05:00Race, Twitter and Melissa Harris Perry<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>This may seen like a sudden shift of topic, but it is, in fact, directly linked to <a target='_blank' href='http://nicewhitelady.blogspot.com/2010/12/listen-and-be-present.html'>my last post</a>. In explaining my teaching objectives, I listed two examples of what I meant by "thinking, listening and being present":<br/><br/><i>It means learning to recognize that we each experience life from our own unique position in time and point of view, shaped by our identity. It means listening to others' opinions and experiences and being able to understand them in the contexts of their own unique humanity. </i><br/><br/>That evening, an example of this way of thinking played out on <a target='_blank' href='http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26315908/ns/msnbc_tv-rachel_maddow_show/#40847310'>The Rachel Maddow Show (MSNBC)</a>. Like many news organizations, the show included a segment on President Obama's comments about Michael Vick's second chance in the NFL. The host then brought in frequent contributor Melissa Harris Perry, a Princeton professor often asked to comment on race, gender and politics. In a very short time (actually three minutes less than she thought she had) Perry attempted to lay out the very complex history and multiple viewpoints involved in the controversy. I thought she did well, probably because it's a topic I already know and could fill in some of the blanks. Apparently the Maddow show audience did not agree. Her email inbox was flooded with angry messages, and her Twitter stream caught fire.<br/><br/>Professor Perry uses Twitter better than just about anyone I know, and she followed up her Maddow appearance with a series of 140-character posts that served as a mini-lecture on the nuances of America's racial history as played out most recently in the Michael Vick controversy. She even provided the slides from a class lecture/discussion that occurred when a PETA demonstration at Princeton angered African American students by comparing animal cruelty to slavery. The "twecture" and the class slides can be found at <a target='_blank' href='http://www.mediaite.com/tv/prof-melissa-harris-perry-ties-michael-vick-case-to-slavery-civil-rights-on-msnbc/'>Mediaiate</a>. <br/><br/>How does this connect to my post? We are fortunate today to have a multitude of ways to connect and interact with others, including people with very different lives and views. How well those conduits serve us depends on our own inclination to think and LISTEN to those views, and to understand that they come from real, living breathing people who are trying to tell us their "truths". The real truth -- if there is one at all -- may be theirs, or ours, or some yet-undiscovered truth. When we communicate only in one direction, or only with our own "tribe", it doesn't matter if we are speaking face-to-face or using the latest sophisticated social network. We do not learn.<br/><br/>Twitter can be an amazing tool for listening to a multitude of viewpoints, and for engaging with earnest questioners. Melissa Harris Perry has it right, in a tweet posted towards the end of the exchange:<br/><br/><i>Completely possible that I've explained nothing, but hopefully at least raised some questions. As always Tweeps provoke & engage. </i><br/><br/>Spoken like a true teacher!<br/><br/>Update: Professor Perry has posted <a href='http://www.thenation.com/blog/157372/michael-vick-racial-history-and-animal-rights' target='_blank'>her own follow-up</a> at The Nation.com.<br/><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=e0f77d15-63f2-8551-9679-68403ab73359' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-22459254992871341282010-12-29T10:39:00.001-05:002010-12-29T10:39:27.021-05:00"think, listen, and be present"<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>With my home workspace ready for the new year, it's time to start preparing for my spring classes, which begin in about four weeks. Serendipitously, Randy Murray (Who Writes for You?) has <a href='http://whowritesforyou.com/2010/12/29/no-resolutions-but-one/' target='_blank'>a compelling post today</a> that perfectly captures what I want for my students. No matter what I am teaching -- popular culture, fashion history, research methods -- my number one goal is to awaken them to thinking. Balzac's dismissive description of unreflective existence, "like skating on the surface of life" (<i>Cousin Bette</i>) jumped out at me from the page in 1977 and changed me forever. In that instant, I recognized what I wanted for myself, having drifted through most of my twenties waiting for "real life" to begin. <br/><br/>Murray's one resolution: "I want to think, listen, and be present". <br/><br/>In my daily life, that means taking some time everyday to stop and really attend to what is right in front of me, whether it is chopping onions or talking with my husband. Embracing the cold, gray winter day I have instead of the spring thaw I long for. One of the reasons I write is that I cannot do it mindlessly.<br/><br/>In my teaching, that translates into really thinking about our relationships with the "stuff" of everyday life. Clothes. Electronic gadgets. Music. Reality TV. It means learning to recognize that we each experience life from our own unique position in time and point of view, shaped by our identity. It means listening to others' opinions and experiences and being able to understand them in the contexts of their own unique humanity. It means learning to write from the center of their being, not from a graphic organizer and a thesaurus. <br/><br/>"<i>think, listen, and be present</i>" -- I like that!<br/><br/> <br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=d99eeccf-0126-8615-96c2-7a7120536e79' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-39703565679520175262010-12-28T09:45:00.004-05:002010-12-28T12:23:06.874-05:00Janustide - my six days of intention<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><img height="229" src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/_QAxr5bn0M_4/TRn3mWiucOI/AAAAAAAAANU/nYwqZ7uC57c/%5BUNSET%5D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="max-width: 800px;" width="222" /><br />
For years now, the week between Christmas and New Year's Day has been my own private holiday. I've finally decided to give it a name: Janustide. Janus, you may recall, was the Roman god for whom January is named, whose two faces look to the past and the future. He was the god of beginnings, endings and of gates, doors and doorways. <br />
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My Janustide is six days of intentional transition from the old year to the new, a mixture of physical and mental decluttering, reflection, planning and preparation. It's the third day, and my home office is nearly ready for the coming semester; one more day will do complete the job. I have moved three large bags of unneeded stuff to the basement for the next charity pick-up, and filled two paper recycling bins. While I work, I listen to books or podcasts (<a href="http://www.zencast.org/" target="_blank">Zencast</a> is a favorite.) A small notebook and pen lie on my desk, ready to capture fleeting ideas or reminders.<br />
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I'm curious; do others have the same turn-of the-year rituals?<br />
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Update: My office is ready for 2011! Yes, that's a sewing machine at the far right.<br />
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That doesn't count the old papers, calendars, craft supplies and other odds and ends that went out with the recycling or the trash. <br/><br/>Here's how I see it: when we do decide to move to a smaller place, I don't want to find myself trying to reduce our 8 rooms of belongings by half over a few harried months. (Not to mention the basement and garage. Eeek!).<br/><br/>Here's a simple way to start: If you buy something new, get rid of two old things. Or three. For more great ideas, check out Gretchen Rubin's <a target='_blank' href='http://www.happiness-project.com/happiness_project/2008/07/clutter-busting.html'>Eight tips for preparing for a real (or virtual) move</a> at The Happiness Project.<br/><br/><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=c75b7913-dff7-86f0-8d5d-273dee11ffc8' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-40943662450690826322010-12-05T13:26:00.001-05:002010-12-05T13:26:59.496-05:00The hard days ahead<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>We may not be re-living the Great Depression, but this is as close as I ever want to come. Thanks to the surviving New Deal safety nets, those much-aligned government bailouts, and a modest federal stimulus, the economy is recovering -- slowly. Keep in mind that two years into the Great Depression, Hoover was still President and the economy was still sinking. I heard on the radio this morning that it may take four or five years to restore the millions of jobs lost during the recession, to the point where everyone who wants to work has a job and is working to their desired capacity.<br/><br/>My husband and I are fortunate. We have secure jobs, and my full-year, <a href='http://nicewhitelady.blogspot.com/2009/01/frugality-in-face-of-less.html' target='_blank'>half pay sabbatical two years ago</a> reacquainted us with frugal habits that still serve us well. But the last two year's political kabuki, culminating in the shameful unemployment insurance extension vs. tax cuts lame duck congressional drama has convinced me that it is serious hunker time. <br/><br/>What do I mean by hunkering down? I don't mean withdrawing into my shell, taking care of myself and building walls to protect my safe little world. There's too much of that attitude around, as it is. Here's the deal:<br/><br/>Whatever the government does that is going to work, it's going to take a while. (If we are lucky, the bad stuff will also take its time to manifest itself. Some silver lining!) So it's up to me to make sure the people in my immediate circle survive the hard days ahead. That means supporting my son until he gets work. Entertaining more at home, because it not only saves money, but feeds bodies and souls. Working through my communities to neighbors in need. Supporting local nonprofits who are taking of the slack when government programs are cut back.<br/><br/>This doesn't mean I've given up on political activism. I will be watching our leaders and I have an <i>excellent</i> memory. Any politician who blocks good ideas for the sake of partisan politics or cold ideology -- should consider that a warning.<br/><br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=f28aa0ac-49c7-8823-865e-ca2abd9629bd' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-48962186201775633762010-11-30T15:35:00.001-05:002010-11-30T15:35:41.723-05:00Poison Politics: Confessions of a Not-so-nice White Lady<p>Don't get me wrong; most of the time I am just about the nicest person you've ever met. The <a title="UU Principles" href="http://www.uua.org/visitors/6798.shtml" target="_blank">UU first principle</a>,<em> to affirm and promote t</em><span style="font-family: Verdana, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 15px;"><em>he inherent worth and dignity of every person</em>, is central to my world view. <strong>Most of the time</strong>. But now and then, -- have you ever seen the old Disney cartoon when mild-mannered Goofy becomes a "motormaniac" behind the wheel? (Linked below) That's me when I consume too much partisan political media. Twitter, Facebook, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/" target="_blank">Huffington Post</a>, <a href="http://swampland.blogs.time.com/" target="_blank">Time's Swampland</a> -- all my favorite haunts are danger zones for me these days. Information is good; in fact, reliable information is essential to forming an intelligent opinion. Intelligent opinion, likewise, is awesome. Sadly, reliable information and intelligent opinion do not have the entertainment value of opinions full of snark, satire and bile, especially when I agree with those opinions. It can be even more delightful to add my own sarcastic zinger to a re-post or comment thread. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Verdana, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 15px;">But I am growing tired of their bitter aftertaste. I feel the need, more and more these days, to mind my acid tongue, to pause and edit, to delete that mean-spirited tweet. I am trying to generate a more reasonable ambiance, even in my own little corner of the internet. Later on today, I am going to split my "political" list on Twitter into two groups: the sane and the snarky. Then, I plan to make every effort to maximize my consumption of good information and rational opinion and moderate my exposure to political venom. I will try VERY, VERY hard to pass along only what is constructive, especially in the broadcast spaces of Twitter, Facebook and blogging. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Verdana, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 15px;">Because keeping the "Nice" alive is important.</span></p><p>I don't want to be like Mr. Wheeler:</p><p><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0ZgiVicpZGk?fs=1&hl=en_US" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" height="385" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0ZgiVicpZGk?fs=1&hl=en_US" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always"></embed></object></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-53282193340308297722010-11-29T09:57:00.001-05:002010-11-29T09:57:04.098-05:00My take on Project 333 (minimalist clothing)<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Minimalist fashion has <a href='http://nicewhitelady.blogspot.com/search/label/minimalism' target='_blank'>fascinated me</a> for most of my adult life, so the idea behind <a href='http://www.bemorewithless.com/2010/minimalist-fashion-projects/' target='_blank'>Project 333</a> -- committing to a 33-piece wardrobe for 3 months was instantly appealing. I made my list and set off to live minimally only to discover I ALREADY AM. The first clue should have been that I had trouble coming up with 33 items; all I had to do was move one pair of jeans and a couple of long-sleeved tees to the bottom drawer, and I was good to go. Instead, I've used the experience as a chance to reflect on the preconditions for minimalism.<br/><br/>1) My existing wardrobe is already designed to be flexible. I buy very few patterned items, choose solid colors that go together, and reply on accessories to jazz up my outfits. Yay, earrings. Boo, having to count them on the list.<br/><br/>2) The project rules exclude underwear from the list of 33 items, which happens to coincide with my own personal philosophy that life is too short for boring undies. <br/><br/>3) The biggest challenge was their choice of dates (October 1- December 31), which in the Washington D.C. area can run the gamut from low 80s to 8" of snow. My "winter" season, (wardrobally speaking) runs from Hallowe'en to St. Patrick's Day.<br/><br/>I would quibble with some of their rules: a bracelet counts, but wedding rings don't? Please! Until we have full marriage equality, I would argue that participants could be allowed one exempt item of jewelry, to accommodate anything worn on a regular basis for symbolic or sentimental reasons. Also, in my world, a purse is not a wardrobe item, it's strictly practical. (Why is purse on the list, and not wallet?) I carry a largish tote to work (papers, books, wallet, lunch) and a smaller bag (wallet, phone, notebook) all other times. If I switched to a shopping bag for everything, would it count or not? Ditto sunglasses. My little clip-on sunglasses are not a fashion item (as my son assures me); I wear them because the light hurts my eyes. <br/><br/>If you like the idea of Project 333, you'll probably enjoy the other posts on the <a href='http://www.bemorewithless.com/' target='_blank'>Be More with Less</a> website. Lots of tasty food for thought.<br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=c0613cdf-13c4-81ec-a13e-8abc67f0962f' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-51605688361151704962010-11-27T20:06:00.001-05:002010-11-27T20:07:00.165-05:00Aging gracefully (or not)<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Somehow, I ended up simultaneously reading two books about women trying to deal with aging. The first, <a href='http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307450635' target='_blank'>All Over the Map</a>, by Laura Fraser, is a "coming-of-middle-age" tale of travel, food and romance. The other is <a href='http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0940160757' target='_blank'>Growing Up in Old Age</a>, is a more searing look at the "unyielding course of aging", from the vantage point of novelist and poet Margaret Howe Freydberg when she was in her late 80s. I picked the first because I thought it was a travel/food book, and the second because I wanted to gain some insight into the aging process from someone in the trenches. But they have both raised the interesting and disturbing question of what it means for a woman to lose her looks to age. <br/><br/>I thought of myself as attractive when I was in my twenties, but never pretty and certainly not beautiful. My mother's side of the family has blessed me with good skin and an hourglass figure (which didn't seem like such a blessing in high school). Since casual acquaintances seldom seem to recognize me, I tend to think of myself as generic, if not plain. But it is one thing to be plain, or appealing or whatever mildly positive descriptor one might choose, and another to become unattractive, or even ugly. I am ashamed to admit it, but I used to feel vaguely angry when I looked at my mother's sagging chin, or lined face, or drooping eyelids. Now they are mine.<br/><br/>The heroine in <a href='http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307450635' target='_blank'>All Over the Map</a> is, despite her misgivings, young enough to dress and act seductively. Margaret Howe Freydberg remembers those days, but has moved far beyond them. I am in the middle, wondering if I will detect the line when it is crossed.<br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=adb5bab3-a408-85f3-8c26-6437286c9d79' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-28948575381676054802010-11-26T10:40:00.001-05:002010-11-26T10:40:53.720-05:00Black Friday and Why I am not Shopping<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>I am one of those selfish people not helping the economy today. I am the Scrooge who doesn't pile presents under the tree (but not the Grinch who steals them). I love the Christmas season, and that means you won't find me in line at any store at 4 a.m. on Black Friday. About fifteen years ago, in order to focus my voluntary simplicity energies on the holidays, I made a list of the most meaningful aspects of Christmas, the ones I wanted to experience MORE , and a second list of the things about the holidays that made me feel anxious or empty. Music and spirituality were at the top of the "More" list, and shopping for presents was clearly the activity I was more than ready to let go. <br/><br/>It was not an easy task. My children were still young enough (8 and 13) to want lots of presents under the tree. I actually did enjoy the mall experience: listening to the music, watching kids visiting Santa and savoring the buoyant atmosphere of holiday shopping. But choosing and buying presents made me anxious (Would they like this or that? Was I staying within my budget? Can this be mailed in time?) and every year when the presents were all opened, I felt empty and let down. <br/><br/>I won't relate all of my simplifying experiences at once, but share them over the next few weeks. For now, let me just say I am not shopping today. I am listening to Christmas music, knitting a hat for the mitten tree at church and pulling out my favorite mantle decorations. <br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=343d8f61-2fec-80a0-b303-0636b3fdfd1e' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-58522320058224296642010-11-26T10:20:00.001-05:002010-11-26T10:20:14.133-05:00Nice White Lady is back!<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>I am back, after a too-long hiatus. I am still waiting to do the revisions on my book, which means I may disappear at any moment, but lately this blog has been calling to me. As with most sabbaticals, taking time off from NWL has given me time to re-think my purpose. Long-time readers may remember when it was about white privilege, anti-racism and crafting an ethical life. Then, the emergence of the green fashion movement, especially the sudden trendiness of bamboo rayon, pulled me almost entirely into sustainable style, leave other everyday issues in the shadows. Those issues didn't go away, so NWL's focus on ecofashion left me with nowhere to ponder all the other internal conflicts and ethical dilemmas in my life.<br/><br/>Finally, it hit me. A blog is not a book; I don't have to maintain a tight focus for pages and pages (or years and years). While ethical consumption will still be an important theme, I plan to expand my scope to include other everyday quandaries. If I can resolve the question by referring to etiquette, dogma or ideology, I probably won't trouble you with it. This is the place where I try to figure out how to handle life's humble conflicts, while staying true to myself, a nice white lady who is not trying to save the world, just discern my own right path through it.<br/><br/><div class='zemanta-pixie'><img src='http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=7131b7ac-4b91-86d3-b976-ea0652761acd' alt='' class='zemanta-pixie-img'/></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8469202287697783630.post-1516809311474673232010-10-27T11:02:00.002-04:002010-10-27T11:06:19.156-04:00Project 333<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">I take time from my Pink and Blue writing project (going well, thanks, but but still gobbling my life) to point interested readers to <a href="http://www.bemorewithless.com/2010/minimalist-fashion-project-333-begins/" target="_blank">Project 333</a>, an interesting experiment in minimalist fashion. The challenge is living for 3 months with a 33-item wardrobe. I am going to give it a try, and do a few updates here as well. If you are a Facebook user, you can join their page and interact with others.<br />
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